Monday, November 2, 2009

Tractors and Champions

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After 3 nights of trick or treating I was thankful Halloween season was over. Yes i said 3 nights. First on Thursday we trick or treated in the community that i grew up in. Friday night we went to a local open air mall. They had the local fire department there, a pony for petting and pictures, stilt walkers and trick or treating at all the stores. Stores such as Borders, Stride Rite, Yankee Candle and Kay's Jewelry. I was hoping for things like diamonds, sapphires, kids shoes and seasonally scented candles. But no such luck, we only got candy, with the occasional 20% off coupon. And Saturday night we stayed local. All 3 nights I had the privilege of being pushed in a wheel chair.

When I asked Tyler before my surgery what he wanted to be for Halloween, he told me he wanted to be a farmer. That would be easy, we already had everything do make that costume, except for a pair of overalls. I looked high and low for a pair of Osh Kosh b'gosh. Couldn't find a pair anywhere! I checked thrift stores, asked friends and my sister. No one had a pair that i could even borrow. So onto Plan B. I browsed online and found a picture of a little boy sporting a cardboard tractor. At that moment I knew what i was going to do. I got a small box and fashioned it to resemble a certain green and yellow tractor.

This little boy and his tractor was the talk of every stop that we hit. He was absolutely giddy to have a tractor. And i have to admit he was pretty damn cute.

In addition to my lil' farmer, I also had a gymnastic Champion on my hands. Megan loves gymnastics and it was only natural for her to want to dress up as something that she aspires to be. She has expressed on many occassions that she wants to be in the olympics. This was only practice for the many gold medals she intends to win.

Monday, October 19, 2009

You Just Gonna Crawl Like a Big 'ol Baby

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I didn't hesitate one bit, I answered with a very resounding YES! Why yes I am gonna crawl like a big 'ol baby. And I don 't care if i am 30 years old. And I don't care if you like it or not. This is what i told my 4 year old son. This was said to me 1 week ago as I came into the house after having surgery. Foot surgery. The crutches just were not working for me. I was able to get up the first step with the help of my husband and tried to get up the second step and into the house. This was a feat that I was not able to accomplish with the help of my husband, kids or crutches.
Still doped up on anesthesia and pain pills, I threw my crutches into the house as if I were a javelin thrower at a track and field competition. At this point in time I didn't care who saw me, i just wanted my bed. I knelt down and I crawled into the house, yep you guess it, like a baby. I proceeded to crawl through the entry way, down the hall and into my bed.


One week post surgery and when i want to get somewhere fast, i crawl. Now i know why once babies learn to walk most of them still prefer to crawl. It's easier than trying to get my crutches, hoist myself up on them and clumsily make my way around the house.

As I said I am now 1 week post surgery and i have gotten the soft splint taken off and a hard cast put on. As you can see it is a nice bright orange. My children picked it out. Orange for fall and orange for pumpkins. I will have this cast for 2 weeks and I go back to the doctor's to see what the next course of treatment is. Until then i will be seen crawling around my house.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Thought Provoking Thursday

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So i visit a little blog called Manic Mother. She has been going through a lot recently, with her little man (Ezra in my sidebar) fighting cancer and all. Over there she posted a question today to provoke you to think a little. Her question being: If you could ensure your kids never have one experience that you have had, what would it be?

I had to think long and hard on that question. I have experienced more than my fair share of life changing events, at least in my opinion. I have been through domestic abuse between my mother and father. I have been physically abused by my father and witnessed physical abuse to my siblings by my father. Alcoholism, divorce, being raped by a stranger, depression and suicide attempts. All of this before the age of 18. Of all of these events how could i just pick one? I can't. What I wish that i could ensure that my children never have to experience is the extreme hurt caused by another human being.

The physical hurt that was inflicted upon me eventually trickled down to emotionally problems. Abandonment issues, trust issues, and self-esteem issues, those feelings finally led way to depression and attempts at taking my own life. Do i wish that these never happened? Sure, no one wants to have these horrible things happen to them. Would I be the same person had i not experienced them? I believe that i would not be the same person i am today if i hadn't gone through what i did. Those feelings and experiences helped me to be the person that I am today.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

A friend found amongst the flowers of late Summer

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What a surprise it was to me when i found this thing while looking through some late summer flowers. It is a black and yellow agriope, non venomous.


Monday, September 28, 2009

Fall is sneaking up on us

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One lone leaf spotted on a nearby Sassafrass Tree. More to come soon, I am sure of.



Sunday, September 27, 2009

Belated Happy 4th Birthday to my little boy

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This year tyler got to celebrate his 4th birthday twice. Once in Virginia with his Nana and Papa that he had never met, and back home in ohio.
In Virginia it was all about Thomas the Tank Engine. Ohio's party was a little more subdued and we just had a small cake but lots of presents and fun.


The picture of the slide is a play area at the beach. We headed out to the beach for a while on his birthday. Notice the "I'm the Birthday boy shirt" It got lots of notices and comments.





































Sorry for all the photos, i just couldn't decide. These are only the pics from virginia.

Friday, September 25, 2009

More Wonderful Vacation Pictures

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